Bella Hadid warns ex, The Weeknd, that Selena Gomez is just using They're working on very sexy music, so it spilled over,' a friend of Gomez explained. of the relationship, including one of her flashing the middle finger. On Tuesday night Selena Gomez and The Weeknd sparked romance rumours Is it ever okay to date a friend's ex boyfriend or girlfriend? Weeknd only just got out of a long-term relationship with Selena's pal, Bella Hadid. The Weeknd's new romance with Selena Gomez shouldn't affect her relationship with Bella Hadid, as the girls were never 'good friends,'. Wait, the Weeknd and Bella Hadid were dating? It's unclear how Hadid feels about the nascent Gomez - Weeknd relationship, though, as was. Selena Gomez and The Weeknd wanted to keep their relationship a Bella Hadid, 20, but the pair have remained good friends since their. Selena Gomez and The Weeknd might be 's hottest new couple but It's still early days, but so far Selena Gomez's rumored relationship with The Weeknd is all because of all the possible drama it caused with his ex, Bella Hadid. in part because Selena is friends with Bella's sister Gigi, making this.